82457acb1a You're on the Pill 3/10 Photograph by Shutterstock.com You're on the Pill Unfortunately, the same pill that you take for more carefree sex can actually put a damper on your desire. Already have an account? Sign In. If you're having significant trouble orgasming, check with your gynecologist to make sure nothing like that is going on. If a man turns us off in day-to-day life, chances are slim that we can become excited by him in the bedroom.Before we delve deeper into FSD, lets address your feelings about the infidelity. You're not feeling so hot 8/10 Photograph by Shutterstock.com You're not feeling so hot The same way that stressful thoughts can interfere with your arousal, negative body perceptions can have a similar effect.
Try not to think about orgasmingand just enjoy the sensations instead. 2. We used to have sex all the time. Can you recommend a prescription pill that might help? I do love him and hes a good man. Advertisement - Continue Reading Below. Cosmopolitan.com spoke with several doctors to find out the real reasons why you're not getting there.. Dont fake anything in bed because youre only cheating yourself. Tell him that you don't want to sleep around, and you don't want him to bone anyone else either.